A Love Meant to Be — Ann Marie & Stuart’s Wedding at The Brehon Hotel, Killarney

Group photo with Ann Marie Stuart and their family in the gardens JOD Photography
The Brehon Hotel illuminated at night during the wedding JOD Photography

Love That Took the Long Way Home

A Love Meant to Be — Ann Marie & Stuart’s Wedding at The Brehon Hotel, Killarney

Some love stories are wild and fast. Others? They simmer quietly for years.

Ann Marie and Stuart met when they were just 17. It was in a nightclub in Kenmare — the kind of chance meeting that sets something in motion. For a year, they shared something special. Then life stepped in, as it often does, and took them down separate paths.

A Decade passed. They both walked different paths, lived full lives. But that thread between them? It never fully snapped. Somewhere deep down, something unfinished waited.

Until Destiny called in a favour from her old friends — Life and Faith.

And with a nudge from all three… those two paths finally crossed again.

Bride getting ready at The Brehon Hotel Killarney

A Wedding in the Heart of Kerry

The big day took place at the stunning Brehon Hotel in Killarney, right in the heart of County Kerry. This venue has elegance built into its walls. Warm staff. A ceremony room filled with natural light. And views of the Kerry landscape just outside.

It was the perfect spot for a reunion 20 years in the making.

Stuart holding Ann Marie close during their first dance JOD Photography
The newlyweds walking hand in hand through the gardens JOD Photography
She sat so still. Hair perfect, makeup done, the room full of quiet excitement.
But it hadn’t hit her yet. Not really.
Then the veil came down.
Soft, gentle — like a whisper.
And that was it.
Her breath caught. Eyes welled.
She wasn’t just getting ready anymore.
She was the bride.
Next up for editing tomorrow is Ann Marie and Stuart’s wedding.
I’ve known Ann Marie and her family a long time — in and out of each other’s lives as time passed. So when she said, “Jim, will you capture my wedding?” — it was a huge honour.
Yeah, I go by Jim or Jimmy around Macroom. James online because, well, that’s what I was christened. But to Ann, I’m Jimmy.
I didn’t know much about Stuart, but when I met him that morning, I knew straight away — yeah, he’s her one and only.
But there’s one moment in this wedding — in this image — that stops me every time. It’s the moment she becomes the bride.
I hear it all the time in this job — you’ll feel it, they say. You’ll know when you become the bride.
It’s when the nerves fall away, and the day takes over.
In this shot, I’m standing right in front of her.
“You ok?” I ask.
“Yeah,” she says with a little smile.
The hairdresser gently brings the veil over her head, starts fixing it —
And she breaks. Just for a second.
“Oh God, Jimmy…”
“You’re alright, Ann,” I said. “It’s your time, girl. You’re becoming the bride.”
It’s the most beautiful image.
I think you’ll all feel it too.
Guests smiling and clapping during the wedding speeches JOD Photography

A Day Built on Family, Real Emotions & Deep Connections

Ann Marie’s daughter cried, laughed, hugged, and danced — all within one hour. That’s the power of a day like this.

Her brothers stood proud as she walked down the aisle. Her parents? Present. Supportive. Beaming.

On Stuart’s side, the love was the same — quiet but strong, like a family who had already decided, “she’s one of us.”

And the moments weren’t forced. No big performances. No fake laughter. Just two people, surrounded by everyone they love, doing exactly what they were meant to do: love each other.

The newlyweds walking hand in hand through the gardens JOD Photography
Heartfelt speech from one of the couples longtime friends JOD Photography

Photographing This Kerry Wedding Was Pure Joy

There are weddings where you feel like a guest. Then there are weddings like this — where you feel like family.

We started the day with coffees and breakfast laid out on the table. The welcome was warm, natural, and full of humour (the good kind, the dry Irish kind).

I got to photograph not only two people in love, but their beautiful children, proud siblings, and the absolute highlight —Ninety-six and ninety-seven years old. Seventy years married. Let that sink in.

Group photo with Ann Marie Stuart and their family in the gardens JOD Photography

Why The Brehon Hotel Is One of the Best Wedding Venues in Kerry

The Brehon Hotel is more than just a pretty space — it works. From light for photography to the flow of the day, this venue makes things easy for couples and photographers alike.

I’ve photographed weddings all across Munster — from Gougane Barra to Blackwater Castle, from Ballyseede Castle in Tralee to the Kinsale Hotel & Spa, The Gleneagle Hotel, and Vienna Woods in Cork. But there’s something about The Brehon. It fits just right.

Detail of the couples names on the wedding invitation JOD Photography

Destiny Never Rushed — But She Always Knew the Plan

What’s meant for you will always find you.

That’s the heartbeat of this wedding. A story with no expiry date.

To Ann Marie & Stuart — thank you for trusting me to capture a chapter that was written decades ago but waited for just the right time to be read out loud.

Bridesmaids helping Ann Marie with her veil JOD Photography
The Brehon Hotel wedding ceremony room beautifully decorated JOD Photography

Thank You

Ann Marie & Stuart — your wedding was unforgettable. You gave me access not just to your day, but to your story. Thank you for the trust, the warmth, the laughs.

To the amazing staff at The Brehon Hotel, thank you for your professionalism and kindness. You helped make the day flow like magic.

And to all the friends, family, and wild-hearted Kerry guests — thank you for being part of a day that truly felt like it was always meant to be.


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